Jayden started kindergarten today! Kindergarten!!! I can hardly believe it! I feel like we have been working towards this forever. We pretty much started helping Jayden come to terms with kindergarten since he got out of pre-k last spring Jayden likes routine and really needs to feel safe and has a very active imagination which tends to cause him a lot of anxiety. Just last night, he proclaimed we could no longer go to the zoo because Willow was now big enough that she could climb over the wall that overlooks the hippo pool, and to keep Willow safe, we needed to stop going to the zoo. This all stems from that fateful April Fools Day when
Willow lost one of her shoes in the hippo pool and the hippo ate it. Why he was worried about it last night? I don't know. The whole time Royal was up in Alaska, during his prayers at night, he would ask God to keep Royal safe and to help him not fall out of the boat and get eaten by a killer whale, and to keep killer whales away from Royal's boat. It did not matter that we kept reassuring him there weren't going to be any killer whales next to dad's boat, he just couldn't get it out of his head. And kindergarten? Well, back in May, Jayden said very firmly that he was NOT going, especially if he was going to have a different teacher and different kids in his class. And we have worked with him all summer, validating his feelings over and over and over. Every time we drove by his new elementary school, we would say, 'There's your new school!' And after weeks and probably months of his closing his eyes tight and shouting he wasn't going there, he finally started asking a question here and there about it. Then we "snuck" (he thought we were breaking rules and he thought that was fantastic!) into the school playground a couple times. Last week we had meet the teacher night and he walked right in and introduced himself to his new teachers. Then later in the week, we went back for his kindergarten screening and he made sure Royal and I weren't leaving the building, but he marched right in and did really well on his tests. I knew he was going to do great today.
Jayden woke up this morning and said he was excited to go to school. We went to our exercise class and someone asked him about starting school - last year he would have hid his face in my leg and acted like that person didn't exist - this year he just said, 'Yup! Today's my first day and I'm excited!" I was feeling so relieved that this wasn't going to be a battle, that we were going to be able to get out the door without having to get in the car 15 minutes earlier than we needed to, while we waited for Jayden to come out of the house on his own. However, we had a small little hiccup. Jayden decided he wanted to walk to school, which on most days really isn't too big of a deal, it's only about a mile from our house. But today, it has pretty much been raining all day, and Royal had come home from work to take Jayden to school with us, and walking a mile to and a mile back from school in his dress shoes would only result in blisters, not to mention we'd all be soaked from the rain. So, I'm sure because of the nerves Jayden probably was already feeling about school, this just wasn't acceptable and he started crying and getting really upset and said there was no way he was going to school then. Well, crapola....with Jayden acting like this, there was no way I was going to get first day of school pictures. So, we got in the car 10 minutes before we needed to, and on our way out the door told Jayden what we were doing and that we'd wait for him there.
Here we are....waiting for him....
We finally heard the front door open and before Jayden could dart back in the house, Royal helped him get in the car....
We only got to school about 5 minutes late...
We got Jayden to his classroom, found his locker, got his backpack hung up, and he started to perk up a little. Although, he still refused to let me take his picture, or at least acknowledge me wanting to take his picture.
Then he found his seat and got to business. I pretty much didn't exist anymore and he didn't even say goodbye. Guess he is going to do just fine!
So, Royal, Wilow and I headed for the door and as we stepped outside and held the door open for Wilow.....she refused to leave.
"I'm staying at school. With Jaydo!" (these are her mad lips)
I think it's going to be a long year for Willow, and Royal and I are seriously considering putting her in pre-school next year when she's 3. :)
Willow and I went back to the school 3 hours later and picked Jayden up. He jumps in the car and when I ask him how his first day was he says, "Well! I didn't get sent to the principal's office!" Well... fantastic!!! Then he gave me a packet of papers and this:
And then I bribed him with an ice cream sundae if he'd let me take his "first day of school" picture on the porch. However, there was no way Willow was letting him out of her sights.
And trying to get a decent picture of these 2 together is pretty much impossible...